Love & Committment :
scandalous gal is about identifying
My name is Denise, and here is my dilemma: 9 years of my life was wasted on a man who didn't love me, putting my life and career on hold thinking that I'm going to be married, and have the happy life that's portrayed in love stories. Never again! Never again! Scandalous Gal is about identifying and correcting the mistakes that's within you first. A relationship will not work if you haven't fixed the underlying problems that affect you which will eventually affect that potential relationship that you are trying to build with that special someone.
Love
Have you ever truly experienced real-love? Have you ever really felt loved? Do you know the feeling of Love, especially when you desire nothing but Love? Well, as I have learned: Love is definitely not a game that some people do play nor is Love some imaginary feeling, or a fairy-tale dream. In fact, Love is real. It is an act of ones’ true intentions in a relationship (from the heart) with someone who you desire to love and who you hope and believe desires to also Love you. In the context of this book, Relationships Broken/ Then Mended, we define Love from Gods’ perspective that is having a relationship with someone who you have a deep admirable and emotionally heart-felt attachment, connection, or desire to be with for the duration of your life. Therefore, as it pertains to a relationship, we find that Love goes beyond just having a feeling or expressing the word itself verbally. It is an actual attempt to be connected and to stay both spiritually and emotionally connected with that special someone who you say you Love, coupled with the expectation of having a specific or certain outcome in a relationship with that someone you are seriously involved with or devoted to in your heart of hearts. It is an action, an act, or something that goes beyond words alone. And, it can have an effect on how you feel, think, and live your life as well as how you relate to others in past, present, and future relationships. Love, Love is what love does, and what love does is respects what it loves. It is caring and sharing, giving and receiving. Love does not lie. It does not mislead; it does not deceive. It does not cheat nor is it fake. It is genuine and authentic, and it is truly long-lasting and never-ending. Love is definitely real.
Committment
Relationships Broken/ Then Mended is a book that describes ones’ hurts, pains, and sorrows. Have you ever been committed in a relationship? Have you ever been even more committed than that person who you wished was as committed as you were? Being in a relationship in which there is no commitment can cause serious wounds and emotional scars that are emotionally and psychologically irreparable. The emotional and psychological attachment becomes so heartfelt and emotionally intense that it is often times very difficult to know if you are either in a dream, daze, or actually living a life filled with your hearts’ desire. Commitment is not just verbal nor is it physical. A commitment based on love is deeply felt. It is a real connection that you not only feel, but you also deeply desire to experience in your life. More importantly, you want to experience it with that person who you feel and believe wants to experience a real and true love connection with you. Both persons are emotionally in-agreement and emotionally obligate themselves to be committed to each other for life.