Boundaries
I wrote a book that will give you a brief look into my situation in hopes that it will help you to identify and avoid the mistakes I have made along the way. Fixing my life is about fixing yourself first and foremost. What does fixing yourself mean? It means fixing your train of thought first, fixing your finances in your life, keeping yourself healthy and in shape, fixing your communication skills. These are the first steps to becoming better (YOU). Once these steps are obtained, that significant other that you are searching for will be interested in getting to know YOU!
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Loyalty & Trust
In my past relationships, I found myself being more loyal to my man than he was to me. Traditionally, the man is supposed to be the breadwinner: taking care of the household, buying the food, paying the bills, making tough decisions, supportive, strong, and the head-of the household. However, it was just the opposite for me. Often times I found myself taking on this male-like-role. I would go above and beyond for him (my man) but it was not reciprocated. I found myself buying gifts, taking on more and more responsibilities, making key decisions, and holding down the fort (sort-of-speak). Certainly, I thought and felt that all of these responsibilities were the role of the man in my life.